The instant serotonin booster, known as our Sun. As May approaches, my Erasmus program is slowly coming to an end here, in Ireland. These last three months have taught me many valuable lessons, that I hope I can implement in my life even when I’m back home.
'Chill Out' Culture
The number one most important thing I’ll be taking home from my program is the chill, easy-going attitude people have here. Back home, I tend to worry about everything, even unimportant, insignificant stuff. But ever since I arrived here, I noticed how much more laid-back I’ve become, which was a much-needed change. People here seem to go with the flow, and no matter how unfortunate a situation is, they always make sure to make the best of it.
Small talk isn’t that dreadful
Back home I absolutely despised the thought of having to make small talk. It felt awkward, because discussing the weather for the umpteenth time felt forced and quite frankly unnecessary. Here however, small talk is an essential part of conversation, something that happens naturally between people, and nobody (other than me) seemed to ever find it uncomfortable. This is definitely a cultural difference, as back home, we’re usually taught not to say anything if it’s not meaningful, but hopefully I’ll be able to change this mindset soon.
Appreciate the sun more
Sunshine isn’t uncommon where I come from. From early spring on the sun comes out quite frequently, and I always took it for granted. Here however, I’m lucky if the sun shines more than two times a week, and during those times you can expect me to sit outside and bask in the warmth. I’ve noticed people doing the same- sitting outside cafés and restaurants when the weather finally turns nice, enjoying it while it lasts. And whilst back home I didn’t always enjoy sunny days to their fullest extent, once I return, I’ll definitely appreciate them more.
Tea
At home I’d usually preferred coffee, water or even juice. Tea on the other hand was for the sick days only. Here however, I wake up and finish my day with a cuppa. At this point I wouldn’t even be surprised if I was the biggest tea consumer of Ireland with how quickly I finish each packet I buy. And I’m proud to announce that my taste has matured, and I’ve grown fond of Irish breakfast tea ever since!
Altogether, I believe that during my stay here I’ve become a much more balanced and laid-back person, which I owe all to the experiences I had here. I’m incredibly grateful, and I hope that time I spent here will form me into a better person ultimately.
By Barbi Beck, Hungary
